Wednesday, December 7, 2011







8:38 AM


Wednesday, October 19, 2011




So, on the advice (read: demand) of a good friend, I shall be writing on long distance relationships tonight. Of all things under the sky. I've never gone through one personally, so whatever I know about this subject is purely academic and quite possibly unrealistic, and I shall not be liable for any misinformation or broken relationships arising from that.

Honestly speaking, I am quite divided on the subject of long distance relationships. On one hand, it could be a romantic proof of a strong relationship, while on the other it could be just daft and impractical; "Oh my boyfriend lives in Timbuktu and I see him once a year, provided his cattle business does well that year", seriously, that relationship's never gonna work, is it? But globalisation, technology, higher education, spare time, and social networks have given rise to many long distance couples. I have friends who are in long distance relationships, and guess what, some of them haven't met each other in person. Of course, some of the relationships are necessitated by external factors, such as migration or going abroad to study and what not. Which suddenly popped this question in my head: Does a relationship between a NS recruit and his girlfriend count as a long distance relationship?

Anyway, I can probably argue more cons to LDR than pros. I'll probably start with the pros then. If a couple were to be able to maintain a LDR for years on end, and still remain faithful to each other, they should get married. ASAP. That's true love right there, I think it deserves a lot of respect because it really isn't easy. In a way I guess you could say that it's an indication of a couple's commitment and love for each other. That's all I can think of, off the top of my head.

Cons. Bloody hell, you kidding me, there's so much shit I can say. You need a HELL lot of trust to be able to start one. You can't see each other personally, you can't be sure of what the other party is doing, you can only take each other's word for it. That's practically mental torture for some. In my opinion, a relationship has two aspects: emotional and physical. A LDR totally removes the physical aspect of the relationship; a warm hug, a hand to hold in the crowd, a shoulder to cry on, (le sexy times), they're all non-existent. It's like this empty void that's inexplicably there. Which is why parties end up cheating on one another isn't it.

I asked a question earlier about whether NSmen are in fact in a LDR with their girlfriends. I think it can sort of be considered a LDR you know. For 5 days in a week you are on this offshore island, completely isolated from civilisation. You have 2 days where you are allowed to go back home so that you don't lose your sanity. In that 2 days, you have to create time for yourself, your girlfriend, your family, your bros, your good friends, your friends of lesser significance, and other people of lesser to no significance. Basically that's almost impossible, something's gotta give. So it is a LDR in a sense that the couple can only meet for a limited time every week, if they can even meet up at all. Which reminds me, if I do get a girlfriend between now to my enlistment, I'd probably have to go through this LDR shit...... but I shall worry about that only if the need ever arise.

I do know of so many friends facing problems as a result of LDRs. One is feeling confused as to whether she should continue or break up for now until he gets back; another one is starting to fall in love with a third party; and one is constantly giving in to the temptation to cheat on her boyfriend in NS. All I have to say is that, in my view, if I were to start a LDR with someone, I will make sure the person is bloody well worth it, and is someone that I want to spend my future with. On a side note, I believe that trust is paramount to a successful LDR, along with making as much time as possible for each other, and keeping conversations and activities interesting. Easier said than done though, a lot easier said than done.

I hereby conclude my post on long distance relationships as requested. Much apologies for the non-existent structure and the poor choice of vocabulary and sentence structure coupled with a lack of ideas and imagination towards the end of the post, as I am typing this whilst falling asleep...


11:38 AM


Saturday, March 26, 2011




I don't understand how you can lie with such a straight face.

I don't think you can expect me to believe you when everything else screams otherwise.

I don't see how I have disappointed you in any way, shouldn't it be the other way round?

I don't get how you can talk down to me like that, because you are not in any position to say those things.

I don't know why I still bother to live, really. Life isn't any better, it's just getting worse.

Maybe I really should die soon


1:08 PM


Wednesday, February 9, 2011




i cried for the first time in ages today. i hate to say it but i still need to cry. A LOT more. fuck i'm pathetic


6:24 AM


Sunday, February 6, 2011




Bloody fucking bitches, the whole lot of you


7:38 AM


Friday, January 28, 2011




俺ってやっぱりだめな人間なんだな。。。


8:16 AM


Thursday, January 27, 2011




Sometimes I wonder why I am still hanging on... why am I still holding on? What am I actually hoping for? Just stop being stupid and end all the pain.

I hate myself for not wanting to live but not wanting to die yet. I'm just so messed up...


8:49 AM


Friday, January 21, 2011




この先どうすればいいんだよ。誰か教えてくれ、誰か俺を助けてくれ。もうあとどのくらいでキレルかわかんなくなってきた。早く誰か俺を殺してくれ。。。真剣に頼む。


7:01 AM


Friday, January 14, 2011




いま頭の中にハマっている歌:Hilcrhyme の「春夏秋冬」。もう日本から帰って一ヶ月もするけど、ほぼ毎日聴いてるかな?何回聴いても厭きない感じ。

あとはコブクロの「流星」と福山雅治の「はつ恋」も最近ダウンロードしてよく聴いてるか。「はつ恋」はどっちかって言うと歌詞がいいと思う;「流星」はなんか解んないな、歌詞も悪くはないけど、曲が一番俺にアピールした。ほかにも聴いてる歌はあるけど、最近いい歌なかなかないからなぁ。。。


9:11 AM


Wednesday, January 12, 2011




今日突然メッセージして喧嘩売ってきたけど、お前は全部俺のせいみたいにして、傷ついてるのは全部自分だけみたいにするのもいいかげんにしたほうがいいんじゃないのか。俺だってつらいよ、俺だって悲しいよ、でもお前にはぜんぜん分からないだろ。もしも一回落ち着いて俺の立場からものを見て、俺の考えてることを少しでも解れば理解できるかもしれない、でもお前なんか絶対そんなことはしないよな。どうでもいいよ、どんな悪口言われようと余計なお世話だ。俺よりもっとよくて、お前を幸せにできる奴が見つかるようになりますように。


8:05 AM


Tuesday, January 4, 2011




殺してくれ...... 誰か早く俺を殺してくれ。


5:55 AM


Friday, December 31, 2010




俺本当に一人になっちゃった。(笑)。でもそれでいいかも。身近に誰もいないのは寂しいけど全部俺のせいだからな。気にしてくれる友達はいると思ったけど、やっぱり勘違いだ。それもそうだよ、俺もなにもしてやってないもん。みんなにも、今まではごめん、俺はいい友になんかはなれなかった。孤独はやっぱりつらそう。でも新しい自分に生まれ変わると決意したかぎり、頑張るしかないよな。もうこれでさようならだ、いまから俺は、中屋鴻傑として生きていく。


11:28 AM


Monday, August 23, 2010




I face the world with a smile, no one knows what is hid inside.

They see only happiness, they cant see the tears I've cried.

When I am alone I hurt, because here I do it well.

In front of all the watchful eyes my heaven turns to hell.

The judge and jury awaits me, everyone has a say.

In a life that hangs suspended for yet another day.

Who are they to judge if what I have done is right or wrong?

In the end I gave her up, but inside I still sing her song.

I don't know how to find the strength I thought I had.

If only I could play tough it wouldn't be so bad.

They say that life goes on and someday I'll smile again.

But, how do they know my pain without being where I've been?

I've traveled so far from home, and can't find my way back.

Somewhere along the way I must have jumped the track.

I saw her just today and her smile is still the same.

She looked at me so sweetly, but never spoke my name.

I wonder if she remembers me, It hasn't been that long.

She may have forgotten me, but inside I still sing her song.




goodnight


10:52 AM


Thursday, July 22, 2010




the beginning of the end.


1:44 PM


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